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		<title>By: Surface Earth</title>
		<link>http://themiracleprocess.com/2007/12/06/it-takes-courage/comment-page-1/#comment-811</link>
		<dc:creator>Surface Earth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2007 19:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Greetings.  I've been clicking on Sibbia's blogroll today and have begun to found some great places!  What a wonderful piece you wrote, it sounded like the inside of my brain at times.  Then the strength, saying stop, you're not going to mismanage yourself....very strong and emotional and real writing.  I enjoy the reminder, we are in the driver's seat after all.

Peace.
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&lt;strong&gt;Hey Surface Earth and welcome to the site! Thanks for your generous comments and encouragement...as you wrote "WE are in the driver's seat"   .....how true ....how true!&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greetings.  I&#8217;ve been clicking on Sibbia&#8217;s blogroll today and have begun to found some great places!  What a wonderful piece you wrote, it sounded like the inside of my brain at times.  Then the strength, saying stop, you&#8217;re not going to mismanage yourself&#8230;.very strong and emotional and real writing.  I enjoy the reminder, we are in the driver&#8217;s seat after all.</p>
<p>Peace.<br />
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<strong>Hey Surface Earth and welcome to the site! Thanks for your generous comments and encouragement&#8230;as you wrote &#8220;WE are in the driver&#8217;s seat&#8221;   &#8230;..how true &#8230;.how true!</strong></p>
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		<title>By: jon</title>
		<link>http://themiracleprocess.com/2007/12/06/it-takes-courage/comment-page-1/#comment-788</link>
		<dc:creator>jon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Dec 2007 08:22:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So what indeed? It may hurt like hell either way but we're survivors. And not just survivors, people who live! I never liked the word survivor for certain things. As if the aftermath was something that left you broken and in a heap, that's the way most people think of the word. All of what you feel is wonderful, and now you're open to the reality that you're stronger than both your fear AND rejection. That's a beautiful thing that many people never come to. :)

I praise where you are. I am not even going to say courage cause it implies something truly scary when the truth is it's something wonderful.
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&lt;strong&gt;Jon...i love your perspective in that it broadens mine so much more.......you are more then right in what you wrote and thank you for sharing it.
:) Morgan&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So what indeed? It may hurt like hell either way but we&#8217;re survivors. And not just survivors, people who live! I never liked the word survivor for certain things. As if the aftermath was something that left you broken and in a heap, that&#8217;s the way most people think of the word. All of what you feel is wonderful, and now you&#8217;re open to the reality that you&#8217;re stronger than both your fear AND rejection. That&#8217;s a beautiful thing that many people never come to. <img src='http://themiracleprocess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I praise where you are. I am not even going to say courage cause it implies something truly scary when the truth is it&#8217;s something wonderful.<br />
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<strong>Jon&#8230;i love your perspective in that it broadens mine so much more&#8230;&#8230;.you are more then right in what you wrote and thank you for sharing it.<br />
 <img src='http://themiracleprocess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> Morgan</strong></p>
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		<title>By: Jay</title>
		<link>http://themiracleprocess.com/2007/12/06/it-takes-courage/comment-page-1/#comment-785</link>
		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Dec 2007 01:10:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>morgan, it's jay... first, thanks for hitting me back with the email.  but damn, you almost made me speechless with this.  mad talent...

this piece of poetry was, damn, see, speechless.  we should DEFINITELY talk more often and share poems, but lemme comment...

i say and agree with you, just be yourself cause at the end, that's all you can be.  though, i wouldn't necessarily hold past misfortunes against this new guy, because if he is the one, you don't want to lose him from past events.  my girlfriend was the same way and i understood what she went through and let her know that i was willing to take all that and SHOW her that i am not going to be a misfortune that came back from her past.  

and i know i just met you officially, just the other day, but your words... wow... see, speechless lol

Jay
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Thanks Jay...

I appreciate your support and encouragement....sorry to leave you speechless  lol...but this is just me being me...honestly, openly and without and resistance to who I truly want to be!&lt;/strong&gt;

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>morgan, it&#8217;s jay&#8230; first, thanks for hitting me back with the email.  but damn, you almost made me speechless with this.  mad talent&#8230;</p>
<p>this piece of poetry was, damn, see, speechless.  we should DEFINITELY talk more often and share poems, but lemme comment&#8230;</p>
<p>i say and agree with you, just be yourself cause at the end, that&#8217;s all you can be.  though, i wouldn&#8217;t necessarily hold past misfortunes against this new guy, because if he is the one, you don&#8217;t want to lose him from past events.  my girlfriend was the same way and i understood what she went through and let her know that i was willing to take all that and SHOW her that i am not going to be a misfortune that came back from her past.  </p>
<p>and i know i just met you officially, just the other day, but your words&#8230; wow&#8230; see, speechless lol</p>
<p>Jay<br />
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Thanks Jay&#8230;</p>
<p>I appreciate your support and encouragement&#8230;.sorry to leave you speechless  lol&#8230;but this is just me being me&#8230;honestly, openly and without and resistance to who I truly want to be!</strong></p>
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		<title>By: Rolando</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rolando</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Dec 2007 19:21:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Morgan, missed you and missed being here too.  You're right about love being an opportunity.  As with all opportunities you have to weight out the pros and cons.  However, based on your where you want to go in your life, I'd say it's a great opportunity to take.  

This experience will definitely add another layer to your life and I'm looking forward to see how it unfolds in your blog   :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Morgan, missed you and missed being here too.  You&#8217;re right about love being an opportunity.  As with all opportunities you have to weight out the pros and cons.  However, based on your where you want to go in your life, I&#8217;d say it&#8217;s a great opportunity to take.  </p>
<p>This experience will definitely add another layer to your life and I&#8217;m looking forward to see how it unfolds in your blog   <img src='http://themiracleprocess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Rolando</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rolando</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Dec 2007 04:59:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Morgan, sounds like you have a lot going on in your mind and in your heart.  The beginning of a relationship, if you are calling it that at this point, is one of the most exciting times.

You have a lot of good questions and I hope you find the answers.  Just as you have deduced your own life experiences, I'm sure you can carry that in your relationship this this guy.

I'm sure those questions will be answered over time if you let your heart answer them and your ears block the noise of your past.  Everyone deserves a chances and deserves love.

It's not easy taking a chance, but it's not love if you don't either.  Trust yourself.
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&lt;strong&gt;Rolando my friend how I miss you so much! I was actually just thinking of you this morning so what a nice surprise it was to see that you had visited. You are so right in trusting myself, trusting my heart...it never lies...I just never truly listened to it. All in all I am approaching the whole situation as another opportunity for me to be more of who i want to be...more of who I am at my core...a being centered in the principle of love.
Miss you buddy... :)&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Morgan, sounds like you have a lot going on in your mind and in your heart.  The beginning of a relationship, if you are calling it that at this point, is one of the most exciting times.</p>
<p>You have a lot of good questions and I hope you find the answers.  Just as you have deduced your own life experiences, I&#8217;m sure you can carry that in your relationship this this guy.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure those questions will be answered over time if you let your heart answer them and your ears block the noise of your past.  Everyone deserves a chances and deserves love.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not easy taking a chance, but it&#8217;s not love if you don&#8217;t either.  Trust yourself.<br />
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<strong>Rolando my friend how I miss you so much! I was actually just thinking of you this morning so what a nice surprise it was to see that you had visited. You are so right in trusting myself, trusting my heart&#8230;it never lies&#8230;I just never truly listened to it. All in all I am approaching the whole situation as another opportunity for me to be more of who i want to be&#8230;more of who I am at my core&#8230;a being centered in the principle of love.<br />
Miss you buddy&#8230; <img src='http://themiracleprocess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </strong></p>
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		<title>By: GO! Smell the flower</title>
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		<dc:creator>GO! Smell the flower</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2007 19:05:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lotsa courage mighty, 

Good for you!

Your flower smelling pals in Dubai, 

Jim &#38; Em.
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&lt;strong&gt;Hey Jim and Em...Thanks for stopping by to take a sniff at my flowers :)&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lotsa courage mighty, </p>
<p>Good for you!</p>
<p>Your flower smelling pals in Dubai, </p>
<p>Jim &amp; Em.<br />
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<strong>Hey Jim and Em&#8230;Thanks for stopping by to take a sniff at my flowers <img src='http://themiracleprocess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </strong></p>
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		<title>By: ashwin</title>
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		<dc:creator>ashwin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2007 20:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"So WHAT……..

I would rather be me and know that I did my best to show up for life and the opportunities it presented to me then to wander in the regrets of “What if” for the rest of my life. I would rather relish in the comfort and strength of knowing that no matter what happens in this life…..

…..I had the courage to be me."

aah these words they are pure magic, they gime so much inspiration and strength , they empower me with the feeling that I can achieve anything in life, Thanks as always for Inspiring me Mighty and I wish  that you will find the one that deserves you. :)
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&lt;strong&gt;Thanks Ashwin....
I have come to believe that having the courage to be exactly who we are is one of the most profound aspects of this existence........and being exactly who we are is the sweetest sense of self expression and freedom we can give ourselves...glad to have been able to spread a little inspiration your way...hope I never run dry in that department! :)&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;So WHAT……..</p>
<p>I would rather be me and know that I did my best to show up for life and the opportunities it presented to me then to wander in the regrets of “What if” for the rest of my life. I would rather relish in the comfort and strength of knowing that no matter what happens in this life…..</p>
<p>…..I had the courage to be me.&#8221;</p>
<p>aah these words they are pure magic, they gime so much inspiration and strength , they empower me with the feeling that I can achieve anything in life, Thanks as always for Inspiring me Mighty and I wish  that you will find the one that deserves you. <img src='http://themiracleprocess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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<strong>Thanks Ashwin&#8230;.<br />
I have come to believe that having the courage to be exactly who we are is one of the most profound aspects of this existence&#8230;&#8230;..and being exactly who we are is the sweetest sense of self expression and freedom we can give ourselves&#8230;glad to have been able to spread a little inspiration your way&#8230;hope I never run dry in that department! <img src='http://themiracleprocess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </strong></p>
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		<title>By: denny</title>
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		<dc:creator>denny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Dec 2007 16:16:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Courage.... something I could use a little of in the meet somebody new department.

Hi Morgan ;)
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&lt;strong&gt;A big hug to you Denny and I know that you are an amazing person with the capacity to give so much love to another....can't wait till you finally meet the lucky lady that you can share your abundance of love and courage with!@&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Courage&#8230;. something I could use a little of in the meet somebody new department.</p>
<p>Hi Morgan <img src='http://themiracleprocess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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<strong>A big hug to you Denny and I know that you are an amazing person with the capacity to give so much love to another&#8230;.can&#8217;t wait till you finally meet the lucky lady that you can share your abundance of love and courage with!@</strong></p>
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		<title>By: Hope</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hope</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Dec 2007 00:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Live, love, breath mama...you got it.
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&lt;strong&gt;Thanks hope....in the end love is all there really is and all we want to experience in every facet of our lives!&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Live, love, breath mama&#8230;you got it.<br />
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<strong>Thanks hope&#8230;.in the end love is all there really is and all we want to experience in every facet of our lives!</strong></p>
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		<title>By: ArahMan7</title>
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		<dc:creator>ArahMan7</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Dec 2007 07:23:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish I could say something &lt;i&gt;Hemmingway,&lt;/i&gt; but I am who I am. I'm no Shakespeare either. All I can tell is to be yourself. I felt the same way too when I met my beloved wife. Thought the way you're thinking now. I got more &lt;i&gt;what if&lt;/i&gt; than I could handle.

Back then I was more vulnerable. What do you think will happen should she rejected me?

I just be myself with a little help of my friends. &lt;i&gt;I know I can do it, but I cannot do it alone.&lt;/i&gt;

Take care my friend. Everythings gonna be alright. Leave it to God. He knows what to do.

Greetings and lotta loves from Malaysia.
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&lt;strong&gt;Hey Noor...
Thanks for the words of wisdom from Malaysia...for me the old songs were playing in the background of my mind for a bit...I'm sure you know the tunes...
"What happens if he doesn't feel the same way?"
"What if i'm not good enough?"
"What if I'm damage goods"
"What if (Fill in the blank)"
At this point I have allowed the feelings and insecurities to pass....it was uncomfortable, but freeing as well. Somedays the past kicks up and tries to manifest itself in the present and it takes a conscious effort not to permit it from occuring, but at the moment ...."This too HAS passed."&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish I could say something <i>Hemmingway,</i> but I am who I am. I&#8217;m no Shakespeare either. All I can tell is to be yourself. I felt the same way too when I met my beloved wife. Thought the way you&#8217;re thinking now. I got more <i>what if</i> than I could handle.</p>
<p>Back then I was more vulnerable. What do you think will happen should she rejected me?</p>
<p>I just be myself with a little help of my friends. <i>I know I can do it, but I cannot do it alone.</i></p>
<p>Take care my friend. Everythings gonna be alright. Leave it to God. He knows what to do.</p>
<p>Greetings and lotta loves from Malaysia.<br />
<br .<br />
<strong/>Hey Noor&#8230;<br />
Thanks for the words of wisdom from Malaysia&#8230;for me the old songs were playing in the background of my mind for a bit&#8230;I&#8217;m sure you know the tunes&#8230;<br />
&#8220;What happens if he doesn&#8217;t feel the same way?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;What if i&#8217;m not good enough?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;What if I&#8217;m damage goods&#8221;<br />
&#8220;What if (Fill in the blank)&#8221;<br />
At this point I have allowed the feelings and insecurities to pass&#8230;.it was uncomfortable, but freeing as well. Somedays the past kicks up and tries to manifest itself in the present and it takes a conscious effort not to permit it from occuring, but at the moment &#8230;.&#8221;This too HAS passed.&#8221;</p>
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